When you know what you want, take it. Do the things you want to do. If you don't want to do something, stop doing it...you may want to do it again later, but let time tell. Eat chocolate, if chocolate is what you want. Spend money for things you want to have in your life and remember to give love to the people you want around you. Take the job you want and accept the praise you deserve. Your life will be empty unless you take it and make it yours.